Love Letters
Love Letters: notes on dating, navigating relationships and love. First-date tips, video date advice, and what to say after you both say yes.
What to say after you both said yes: You had a good five minutes and you both said yes. Here is how to write a first message that keeps the spark going.
How to look and feel good on a five-minute video date: A short, practical letter for the minutes before your first video date. Light, camera, and what to say first.
Why five minutes beats five hundred swipes: You have done a lot of work lately. Left, right, left. We would like to offer you a rest.
The first thirty seconds: Nobody falls in love in thirty seconds. But most people decide in thirty seconds whether they want the next four and a half minutes.
What a yes actually means: You both said yes. That is not the end of anything. It is five minutes asking for a few more.
How to show up on camera like yourself: The camera is not a mirror. It is a window. Here is how to stop treating it like one.
What to do when the conversation stalls: The silence is not the end of the date. Here is what to do with it.